For Love or Money ?

Hey Gang !

I have a dilemma. I have co-worker who is Always talking about her husband. They are still newlyweds since getting in March of 2011.

The thing is, do you get married because you love someone or because your afraid your going to hell if you have sex with them without marriage ?


The co-worker is the sole provider. She married a man who has no job, no car and no drivers license. He is a constant thorn in my side because every day she comes to work and bitches about him. I finally said to her "You knew what you were getting into before you go married".
She just sits and agrees.

So tell me, would you marry for love or out of fear of going to hell or loneliness ?
She is by the way older than him too, which for me is not a problem, but I'm starting to think she married a 19 y/o ! LOL
I'm not sure how many years difference is between them but it sounds like the husband is thinking she is his personal sugar mama !

He made fun of her after church a couple of weeks ago when it came out that she felt like everything was coming down on her shoulders and it was a burden with him in the picture. He joked with her about it.

I know one thing, I will Never be so lonely or live in fear of going to hell because I may or may not want to get "physical" with my mate. I know one things for sure, Once I met Mr. Right and he happens to ask for my hand in marriage, I will marry for love and nothing else. But mind you, my Mr. Right is gonna have his act together aka JOB, Car & Drivers license ! LOL