Manners, Oh where have they gone ?

Man oh Man. 2012 started off with big hopes and dreams for me, only for all them to be mashed.
I haven't given up hope yet. I look forward to taking a road trip soon, but since my last employer is now blocking me on my unemployment, looks like my trip will have to be put on hold.

Anyways, it's just another day that I'm above ground and chilling at the library with strangers who are farting, coughing and acting as if their sitting in their own homes.

Man, has society changed so much to where no one has curiosity anymore ?
They cut you off on the freeway when your driving. Flip you off at the stop light just because and it makes me wonder, where do these type of people come from ? Honestly ? Plant Stupid.

I found a T-shirt today and just had to buy it. It has all kinds of sayings for the replacement for "Idiot"
like, "He's a few batteries short of working", "Smarter than fresh bait" or my favorite "he's 2 feet short of a short bridge", etc etc. I was laughing so hard at the 99 cent store that people were starting to think that I might be a little "off".

It's Memorial weekend and all I'm thinking about is grabbing down on a Hebrew National Hot Dog (they are the best, no preservatives or additives folks) some Ruffles potato chips (yes, I gotta have my ridges) and Orange Crush (yes, I'm old school, what can I say).

Life is short, so enjoy it.  As for the weirdos here in the library, I'll just start wearing a gas mask and as for the dummies on the freeway, I may get a sticker made for my car saying "You Never know who your dealing with, I suggest you think Twice before cutting me off" or "My glove compartment is packed with a bullets with you name on it, don't make me use them"  LMAO.

Peace and Blessings

Keeping Your Promises for 2012 ?

Wow, every new year comes and goes and with every year, my goals and wishes end up going down the drain and rolling over into the next year and then the next. My plans for 2012, is making it a point to keep follow through on my goals, whether they be Spiritual, Emotional, Physical, etc. , and not to let them slide away as I did in the previous years.

Funny thing is, I was thinking to myself today, "Wow, I'm really doing well with the follow through on the goals I set for myself this new year." I'm eating healthier, walking more, drinking more water, seeing the inches slide off, but still there seems to be something missing from my life. Suddenly, I realized that I'm the owner of my own destiny and unless I start making a way for things to happen, I'm not moving forward.
So far I've done well working on the goals I have set for 2012. :)

Have you done the same ?

A Day at the Spa !

Well I have to admit, I have never been to a spa before with several pools.
Yeah, I guess some of us are just sheltered from such things, whether it's due to our upbringing, race, etc., but today I took a chance and adventured out.

Today was spent at Desert Hot Springs Spa Hotel. There are 8 pools of Mineral water all varying in temperatures. Talk about relaxing, OMG !! The prices are unbelievable, in today's' economy anyone and everyone should take advantage !

Mon - Thurs the price is only $5 for the entire day, not only do you have the 8 pools to choose from and dip into at your own leisure but the spa hotel also offers a co-ed Sauna (included in price for spa in additional to Massages, pedicures being available at additional costs.

I would definitely recommend this place to anyone and everyone to try. If you like water, then your love the Desert Hot Springs Spa Hotel.

If more information available at www.dhsspa.com

Ball Scatcher and Sniffer ?

Yep, you read the title correctly.


At my last job this co-worker would scratch and sniff his "privates" all day long.
You ask yourself, how did I notice because I sat next to him. I don't know if he thought it would turn me on or something but if anything I found his habits very disgusting ! He's a grown man (48 y/o) doing this crap and wonders why he can't get a woman ???!! LOL

What makes matters even worse is that he would pick his face and eat the stuff from his face, licking his fingers ! Gross !!!
Even worse, after eating lunch, he would lift up his shirt and rub his (looked like he was carring a 7 month baby) gut !


Did he think it was attractive ? Or that women get turned on by a guy who scratches his balls in front of them without so much as using any type of precaution or resistance. What I found even more amazing is that he one day lifted up his shirt, unzipped his fly and began scratching himself right there in the lunch room. Needless to say I just walked away from him shaking my head.


Yes, this guy is single and he's wondering why ? LOL

Friends or Foe ?

Ok, I was recently laid off work once again and guess what ? All my friends have once again vanished! WTF is up with this kind of treatment. Is it because they feel bad for me and don't know what to say or have words of encouragement ?

It strikes me as weird because those who know me, know regardless of your situtation, I am there 24/7 and will assist any way I possibility can, whether it's a temp place to stay or financially.

I just don't get people anymore, can you feel me out there ?

For Love or Money ?

Hey Gang !

I have a dilemma. I have co-worker who is Always talking about her husband. They are still newlyweds since getting in March of 2011.

The thing is, do you get married because you love someone or because your afraid your going to hell if you have sex with them without marriage ?


The co-worker is the sole provider. She married a man who has no job, no car and no drivers license. He is a constant thorn in my side because every day she comes to work and bitches about him. I finally said to her "You knew what you were getting into before you go married".
She just sits and agrees.

So tell me, would you marry for love or out of fear of going to hell or loneliness ?
She is by the way older than him too, which for me is not a problem, but I'm starting to think she married a 19 y/o ! LOL
I'm not sure how many years difference is between them but it sounds like the husband is thinking she is his personal sugar mama !

He made fun of her after church a couple of weeks ago when it came out that she felt like everything was coming down on her shoulders and it was a burden with him in the picture. He joked with her about it.

I know one thing, I will Never be so lonely or live in fear of going to hell because I may or may not want to get "physical" with my mate. I know one things for sure, Once I met Mr. Right and he happens to ask for my hand in marriage, I will marry for love and nothing else. But mind you, my Mr. Right is gonna have his act together aka JOB, Car & Drivers license ! LOL

When is enough, Enough ?

OMG Guys!!

I have the neighbor from Hell !
When does there come a time when you just say No More ?

My neighbor who is Deaf & Mute has a bad habit of thinking that I am her personal AAA Battery Jumper. She doesn't care what time it is or if she's interrupting my day or anything.
The first two times, I helped her and went out and assisted her. But I stopped the day she came knocking on my door at 4:30 AM !

She knocked for a good 30 minutes ! I was out cold since I suffer from insomnia and didn't go to bed until 3 am that morning. I did not get out of bed for by the time I heard the knocking at the door I wasn't sure if I was dreaming or having a nightmare, since she knocks as if she were the Police Dept.

OK, so I'm thinking I'm in the clear from the neighbor but no, last weekend, it starts up again !
She sent her daughter and had her knock on my door for a good hour.
Did I answer the door ? Nope ! She finally gave up and went to bug the Apartment Manager.
The following day, the neighbor had the balls to glare at me and give me dirty looks !

Currently, I'm thinking of moving. From what I have heard, she has done the same to other past neighbors, but mind you the surrounding other neighbors she doesn't bother, just the ones who live above her. :(


So tell me, when is enough enough ?