For Love or Money ?

Hey Gang !

I have a dilemma. I have co-worker who is Always talking about her husband. They are still newlyweds since getting in March of 2011.

The thing is, do you get married because you love someone or because your afraid your going to hell if you have sex with them without marriage ?


The co-worker is the sole provider. She married a man who has no job, no car and no drivers license. He is a constant thorn in my side because every day she comes to work and bitches about him. I finally said to her "You knew what you were getting into before you go married".
She just sits and agrees.

So tell me, would you marry for love or out of fear of going to hell or loneliness ?
She is by the way older than him too, which for me is not a problem, but I'm starting to think she married a 19 y/o ! LOL
I'm not sure how many years difference is between them but it sounds like the husband is thinking she is his personal sugar mama !

He made fun of her after church a couple of weeks ago when it came out that she felt like everything was coming down on her shoulders and it was a burden with him in the picture. He joked with her about it.

I know one thing, I will Never be so lonely or live in fear of going to hell because I may or may not want to get "physical" with my mate. I know one things for sure, Once I met Mr. Right and he happens to ask for my hand in marriage, I will marry for love and nothing else. But mind you, my Mr. Right is gonna have his act together aka JOB, Car & Drivers license ! LOL

When is enough, Enough ?

OMG Guys!!

I have the neighbor from Hell !
When does there come a time when you just say No More ?

My neighbor who is Deaf & Mute has a bad habit of thinking that I am her personal AAA Battery Jumper. She doesn't care what time it is or if she's interrupting my day or anything.
The first two times, I helped her and went out and assisted her. But I stopped the day she came knocking on my door at 4:30 AM !

She knocked for a good 30 minutes ! I was out cold since I suffer from insomnia and didn't go to bed until 3 am that morning. I did not get out of bed for by the time I heard the knocking at the door I wasn't sure if I was dreaming or having a nightmare, since she knocks as if she were the Police Dept.

OK, so I'm thinking I'm in the clear from the neighbor but no, last weekend, it starts up again !
She sent her daughter and had her knock on my door for a good hour.
Did I answer the door ? Nope ! She finally gave up and went to bug the Apartment Manager.
The following day, the neighbor had the balls to glare at me and give me dirty looks !

Currently, I'm thinking of moving. From what I have heard, she has done the same to other past neighbors, but mind you the surrounding other neighbors she doesn't bother, just the ones who live above her. :(


So tell me, when is enough enough ?